Actually we always use to measure us with an instrument called as 'Mediocrity ', instead of excellence. Do you personally agree to compare an individual with other? You believe on your individuality or mediocrity? Or any other instrument you use to measure yourselves Barometer?Apparatus? Have you ever think that why anything or anyone should always use to measure your success?
Being a human is not a comparison,there is no chance of comparison remember that. Only you can judge your self. If you are satisfy with your success then there is no chance of guilt or feeling of loser.
I really want to ask people that why it is really very difficult for people to think of themselves perfect, and most of us will reply that " because our mind says that 'Nobody is perfect'. Why nobody is perfect? Ask yourself. If you are accepting yourself to b perfect then is doesn't really means that you are 'egoist' or grossly immodest. If it is difficult for you to say that I am perfect then simply try to say that " I am perfectly me". If you will have a look to the world of perfect people then you will realise that these are those who constantly striving to be better tomorrow then they were yesterday. They always strive to be themselves there is no comparison traps for them and they are not 'Mediocre'.
Another reason of this situation are 'Expectations', we always try our best to meet others expectations other then our own and this is the reason the ' we don't dare to b different' . We always think much for what others will think of us other then what's we feels for ourselves. If you are the only one who personally Or directly will face the outcomes of what you are doing then why are you thinking of others? If you are individual in the results of what you have done then why to think of other? Just let other think and carry on to do what you want to success according to you.
Another factor of not to be perfect is ' A Huge Bag Of Guilts ' on our shoulders. And we can't even ask ourselve that how long will we have been carrying round our guilty bags? And keep one thing in your mind that your guilty bags are not ' Invisible' and it will slowly eats away your soul like tuber-clauses or cancer from inside out and you will soon realise that lose of yours. The only way to get rid of these guiltiest is, make your decisions of cease being immodest and self focused.
At last I really just want to tell to that YOU ARE AN INDIVIDUAL and you will alone b responsible for what you have achieve and losses so why to think a lot of others. Never let mediocre a to pull your strings and let you to spent your life according to them. Make your rules and Be YOURSELF and try to achieve EXCELLENCE.
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